Taken from Harry Palmers ‘The Forgiveness Option’
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If you have truly forgiven someone you no longer feel any charge when you think about them.
Saying “I forgive you” does not necessarily mean you have!
The other person does not ‘need’ your forgiveness
Withholding our forgiveness does not give us any leverage over the abuser
Refusal to forgive hurts us not them
Our refusal to forgive is a second injury that we do to ourselves after the initial wound
Seen in this light, not forgiving is pretty crazy.
Beyond telling you that you should forgive did anyone teach you how to forgive?
Harry Palmer’s forgiveness option is a process which takes you through all the steps necessary to forgive and heal yourself.
With forgiveness processing, as with any treatment, the first questions that you have to ask are “Do you want to get better?” and “Are you willing to endure the discomfort connected with getting better?”
Recovering the technology of forgiveness begins with the realization that forgiveness is a series of steps that you take to restore your own piece of mind.It is self- healing. Whether or not it affects the other person is up to them. Announcing that you have forgiven someone is a choreographed display of righteousness, and is not what forgiveness technology is about.
Not forgiving has consequences; it leads to victim consciousness and prolonged suffering; it is the root of future wrongdoing. If you were to sit abusers down and explore what is generating their motivation to harm others, you would find many grudges, old insults, betrayals, and injustices-all unforgiven-that they feel have given them the right to harm anyone they choose.
Forgiveness breaks the abused-right-to abuse chain.
Breaking this chain is not only a kindness you do for yourself;it is a favor you do for generations to come.
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